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Dating Safely Via
Personal Ad
Even when you've known someone since childhood, dating
can go horribly wrong. So if you choose to use online
personal ads, take extra precautions to insure your safety.
Create a new email address for your personal ad responses.
Leave out personal details like your last name, workplace,
home address and telephone number; do not give out this
information until you met your date and trust him or her.
When selecting a venue for your first meeting, choose a
public place -- like a restaurant or café -- and arrive
separately. Tell friends when and where you are going; you
might ask a friend to call or even join you during the date.
Dating Via Personal Ads
Personal ads combine both passive and proactive forms of
dating. They are proactive because they force you not only
to build an ad and evaluate yourself, but also to hone your
ideas of who you would ideally date. You are also putting
yourself out there -- you can't get more proactive than
that! Personal ads are also passive – in a good way –
because they allow people to come to you. In a sense, online
dating is a screening process, as you only have to deal with
those who express interest in you. It is also
non-aggressive; you don't come on as unpleasantly intense or
desperate.
Personal Ads Online
Ready to dive into the dating pool? Online personals are an
excellent way to get your feet wet. Almost all major online
dating sites allow you to create and post personal ads and
photo personals, often for free to give you a taste of their
dating services. One of the major bonuses of online
personals is they reach a larger audience. Online personals
also often have pre-set matching criteria, allowing you to
quickly establish which users share your activities and
interests. Online personals sites provide safe and efficient
communication with other posters. If you are interested in
someone, you can contact them in only a few mouse clicks.
Reworking Your Personal Ad
A good personal ad will generate a few quick, genuine
responses; a poor one will either generate none at all or
the wrong kind of responses. If your personal ad isn't
working for you, don't wait; change it! Look at other
people's profiles – what things do they include that elicit
strong responses from you? Consider including similar
details in your ad or use photo personals. Remember, with
dating comes experience. Over time, you will learn which of
your personal traits to highlight and what you are looking
for in a dating partner. Update your personal ad regularly
to reflect this progression. |